Bomb dropped in July after 13 years M. WAS had EA with some PA components after (so she claims) bomb. EA was discovered and apparently ended in late October. As part of my detachment and GAL process I went on date (4 actually) with another woman. WAS learned about when she cracked password and snooped on telephone. Ever since she has made multiple sarcastic references to this OW (ie. sent a text last week suggesting I might have mono and that I should ask OW whether she has any problems). About two weeks ago we resumed sexual relations on a "no strings attached" basis. This lasted just one week (and was ended after comments I received on another stitch). Last night she learned I was going to an annual Christmas Party without her (I planned to go alone). This, or something else, appears to have sent her over the deep end. Last night she wandered into my room on 3 separate occasions railing on me. She says she knows what I'm up to and knows what I'm doing (I've been doing a much better job GALing the last few days) and that it's all "manipulation". On the third visit she claimed that the resumption (albeit brief) of our sexual relationship was all a manipulated set up for me to obtain some advantage in the legal process! As evidence she pointed to the fact that one evening I was unable to perform. Is this kind of rage normal? Is this type of bizarre accusation common on the part of a WAS? Does it end at some point? She seems completely unwilling to believe that the positive changes I've embarked upon are for real. [note that legal proceedings have not begun although we have both retained lawyers and a 4 way meeting is scheduled for next week].
