Originally Posted By: Tostada
...knowing what a big mess xw has got herself into.


And THAT, is the way you need to keep looking at it. Looking at it that way, why can't you forgive her? Why must you harbor all the negativity and continue to go up and down the emotional elevator? Forgive her, forgive her for chosing a life that will be nothing short of displeasing for herself until she decides to own up to her actions. And in doing so you shall set yourself free. After all, you couldn't control what she has done or will do.

So what if OM got her a little assurance bling. Call up a couple of buddies and start a pool on how long it will take before all the problems they (OM and your XW) thought they could just run away from take a bite out of their backsides.

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11