Damn straight! Way to take charge on the phone, the car, and life in general.
Is it possible for you to get an outside atty on your side to push the military atty a little faster on this support? Eleven dollars just isn't going to make it through the weekend.
Also, ask your own atty what the rules are about notifying him about his stuff. There are laws about selling or disposing assets during a sep or div. I don't want to see you get in trouble down the road. (Then again he left you with only $11 so if you have to eat...)
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
Hellooooo Serenity? Where you been for three days, girl?
Hopefully, enjoying herself.
Just checking in as well...
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Didn't do much Sat. (was tired and below you will see why)
Went to Church on Sunday then last night went and had a few drinks with my Mom and Sister then went to the movies.
I have had a long weekend thanks in part to my oldest who decided that after me giving him permission to stay at a friends' house Friday night, he was then going to not be where he said...
So I drove around til almost 3 am looking for him, never found him, he comes in Saturday morning and I am 99% sure he was high upon his return. Said he and some friends had slept in a park because he didn't want to be at my parents house (where we are living)...He wants everything to go back to the way it was.
I then unactivated H phone so I could let him know what was going on and his response after saying I should ground him from everything was that maybe son needed to live with him because he may need a sterner parental unit.
Please tell me who in the eff that stern parent would be?
My husband? He who acts like he is younger then my son?
Lord give me strength for this mess that my life has become.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Lord give me strength for this mess that my life has become.
Serenity. I am sorry for everything. However, your life is good - that is the life you are in control of. You can not control your husband or even your son. All you can do is try to be the best mother and W you possibly can. You are doing that. The fact that those close to you are making bad choices is not a reflection of you.
. . . and his response after saying I should ground him from everything was that maybe son needed to live with him because he may need a sterner parental unit.
Please tell me who in the eff that stern parent would be?
My husband? He who acts like he is younger then my son?
NO!!! YOU are the person of character right now, Serenity (seems like you have always been, as well), so YOU need to fight to have your son stay with you, as challenging as that is going to be at times.
Your son is sad and angry and confused, and so he's testing you. You need to pass the test, or he'll just push the boundaries even further. And even if you PASS it, he will likely test you again. It's what kids do.
It's just wearying, I know, when your H is also a damned kid right now.
