Is this the end of my marriage?

[P17]

A very quick update as my D is here.

I just picked D up from her mum's. W had arranged to be here. And, lo and behold, she was here.

I asked her if she got my letter and she said she did but didn't understand it and we had already arranged today.

I just explained it to her in the street - that I was sorry but that I couldn't do it anymore. She has destroyed and torn apart our family (I shouldn't have said that but I was winging it and it just came out) and that I would no longer accept her affair and what she was doing. I told her I only wanted contact with her under two circumstances - to fix the marriage or to end it. I also said that she has chosen a path for herself and that D and I needed to move on with her lives too. I couldn't be there for her anymore.

She did look a little shaken when I told her but what else was I supposed to do. I just looked at her and walked away. I heard her see 'see you later' as she got into her car and drove off.

When we arrived she was sitting in her car laughing away while on the phone. At least now she realises that she can't have her cake and eat it too.

My D did a Goodbye card for her and I drove her around to W's house and we put it through the door. OM's car wasn't there so I assume he is working now.

It's finally done. I actually feel better doing it in person as I saw her reaction and I know she was upset, inside at least. However nasty that may seem, it makes me feel better to know that she still cares.