Leaving judgements aside, do you believe down deep, that that the only realistic way for you to detach from your w and begin moving on, is to have some other woman in your life?
It feels that way sometimes. But then when I truly think about it, I am not sure there is another woman out there that can really bring me happiness. I think the only woman that can really make me happy is the one that I married.
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When you have an honest answer to this question, ask yourself one other question--are you willing to do what is needed to be a happy man?
Willing to? I am trying to accomplish this. But yes, you are right, quite often I live in a state of confusion. I question my own decisions to often. At times it prevents me from making the best and right decisions. At other times it is hard to follow through when I make up my mind and move forward. Questions pop up down the process that make me re-evaluate a decision that was made.
Kevin
There are other women out there that CAN truly bring you happiness! You're not doomed to an unhappy life IF your wife chooses to never come back! Thinking that way is negative, and simply not true. I know what you want...I understand it. But to say that you're not sure if there is another woman out there that can really bring you happiness...that's not being rational, logical, or truthful.
ps - I'm on your side.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
