Well, what I did for his birthday was when D13 went with him on Sat. was just put a card in from each kid and one from me. It was just a funny card nothing mushy or anything. Put his name on top and just signed my name.

When he was with D13 and I was on the phone with her she said Daddy said thank you. I just ok, finished conversation with D13 and that was it. That wasn't until yesterday, which was his birthday. Haven't heard anything else from him.

D13 did say he wants her on Thanksgiving in the afternoon, now remember my oven isn't working, he has 2 families now due to his parents being divorced and I don't have any family. I know he is in some kind of fog, and thinks nothing of Thanksgiving (says it's just a meal), but doesn't care enough I guess to make sure we have somewhere to go to eat. But maybe I shouldn't be so hard it is only Monday but he has not mentioned one word to me except when I told him this stuff over 2 weeks ago.

That's my update Jon. Not good.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08