Weekend was good. H came over last thursday and stayed the night with the kids while I went to a late night movie with some friends. Friday evening he came over and stayed about an hour and watched a movie with the kids. Saturday he came over to the house and helped me in my shop, lots of cleaning to do out there. It was nice to have his help. A few times he mentioned things he would like to do out there (in the future). He stayed and ate supper with us.
Saw him briefly on Sunday, he stopped by for lunch.
Kids are becoming very curious about things. Wondering why daddy is around more. My son keeps mentioning "family" things alot....he even made the comment Saturday at dinner that "we are all sitting down like a family to eat, ONLY were NOT!" I werent sure what to say to that. ONly that we will always be a family.
Things are going slow. But thats ok. He still has alot to work through. Just taking it day by day. Still no mention of him coming back lately. Just trying to reconnect I guess. I still see him making comments on Fb about friends not being there for him and how he is blank sometimes, and talking about letting it all be???
So I know he is still not through his crisis and he will not be coming back till he is. Right now Im just working on being a friend to him, when it seems everyone else has left him. Some might not agree after all he has put me through, but thats just how I am....
HOpe everyone here has the happiest THANKSGIVING!!!!!
Smile and enjoy everyday!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
