Regarding the paasive,agressive stuff and tit for tat - I may be guilty here and there now, but it's a whole lot better than where I was. There are moments I want to be all about tit for tat, but I hold back. I might get a little win by doing stuff like that, but I am here for a big win, not tiny meaningless ones. I am finally making clear concise comments and am determined to back them up. I am not being mean in any way.
In fact...as I mentioned earlier I work at a car dealership. WAW has a problem with her car and her warranty is gone in a week. I switched cars with her and brought her car in today. Some people say no favours, but I think something like this that really takes no effort (and could save me $$$ in the long run) is fine and it shows that at this moment while WAW is thinking that I am only concerned about me, that I can still be a gentleman.
