I'm off this morning for IC with MC, then hopefully talk to my lawyer. Last night after everyone was asleep, I counted the cash W returned. Looks like a little over $1000 is still missing; just as well. W snapped at S13 last night, and he threw a small fit throwing some things in his room but quickly calmed down and started facebooking. I checked my facebook just to see how he listed his status (he knows we check). I hardly use FB, and use it mainly for kids. I discovered that I am no longer "married" to W on FB. sigh, of course she's long gone. Little things keep surprising me.
The more I think about it, she only told me she had seen a lawyer, but not when. I think it's very possible she went weeks ago, and she still might serve me today.
"Just as well"???
Awoken,
You may want to remind your wife thusly:
"Wife, I counted the cash that you returned, and it would appear that there is $1,000 unaccounted for. You DO realize that every dollar of our lives is going to have to be fully disclosed in a detailed financial affadavit as part of any legal proceeding, right?"
I think your efforts might be better focused on protecting your family's assets, than on checking the two lovebirds' Facebook pages.