By way of counter-point let me suggest that, given the Mad Chops -- and Madder Still sense of humor -- it takes to draft a DB chat board post that includes allusions to the Grateful Dead, Catch-22, 16th-century Samurai combat philosophy, Shakespeare, Man and Superman, "The Lone Ranger," Wagner's Ring cycle, Sinclair Lewis, football, hip-hop, H.P. Lovecraft, Christian Realism, John LeCarre, Stoicism, First Corinthians, and Reese's Peanut Butter Cups, I just might have the chops to stay on the straight-and-narrow.
Writing about it pithily, and doing it, are two very different things, SP.
That being said, I STILL think you can do this, but I think you're going to be in a very tough patch for awhile, until you and your wife learn to better stuff all the anger and resentment and bile that hasn't fully come out yet.
