Yeah, unfortunately, I think this enitre thread is laidened with that tactic from XW. She ALWAYS uses him as the go between, which is yet, another no-no.
What a weekend. Spent Half out of it, had this weird thing going on, bruning up and out of voice and blahhh.
Time with the kids was good. Weather was nice and we played chess out on the deck almost all day Saturday and pretty much vegged out yesterday.
Heh, when I picked them up Friday night, OM was parked like a bafoon blocking the street (in my car ). Kids were out instantly and XW not too far behind. Kids were desperate to get out of there. Apparetnly XW and OM had some blow out of mass proportions and OM spent the previous half hour in the car (probably texting or calling his NEXT fling? ). Xw was being 'nicer', which just backed up the whole fighting thing. Can she seriously think I'm still a plan B for her to run to? Seriously, get the hint hon, you're on your own now.
Any way, upon leaving, both kids said they were fighting and screaming at each other and then the boys, go figure. uggh. So, we go to dinner at the local place as usual. End up having to get a table in the back and low and behold, X-FIL and his grilfrined were there at the next table. Didn't acknowledge or say a word. Finally x-FIL's girlfriend came over by us "I had to come say hello, I saw you guys come in, I can't couldn't take it anymore, didn't you see us?" I said politely, 'yes, I saw you, and I have nothing against you, how are you doing?' A little convo went back and forth and X-FIL just sneared from his seat. lol, I can hold a grudge for a long, long time, buddy, get used to it.
Anyway, supposidly, XW is taking S11 for his physical today, he says she's lying. Ohhhh, XW and OM apparently now work together. How cute. Ummmm, that REALLY eliminates any prospects of me EVER being a 'plan B', FOR SURE.
Anyway, last night's drop off, perfect. XW stayed inside and never came out. Perfect.
One thing I have noticed recently. I've noticed on Sunday nights when it's time to head back, S12 always sneaks a spray or two of my cologne that XW used to really like. Last night, he couldn't say he didn't because he must have used 20 sprays because he simply wreaked of the stuff. What's up with that?
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
). Kids were out instantly and XW not too far behind. Kids were desperate to get out of there. Apparetnly XW and OM had some blow out of mass proportions and OM spent the previous half hour in the car (probably texting or calling his NEXT fling? 
). Xw was being 'nicer', which just backed up the whole fighting thing. Can she seriously think I'm still a plan B for her to run to? Seriously, get the hint hon, you're on your own now. 