Hey Kalni..

*hugs*

Give him a choice.. making love or a Rolex. If you get the Rolex think of naughty ways to entice him with it. Worst case it starts a conversation that leads to laughter. Because that's what being together is all about.. sharing what is good.

Take a step out of the emotional fray and look at the big picture. Go from there, my dear friend.

*hugs*

PS... What are his feelings on blow jobs? blush