I should have been more specific in my request. One of the things I am not good with is boundaries. I need to know what to say to her that sets the boundary for what I am comfortable with....but without slamming a door shut. At this point I am still unsure about standing or leaving, so I am operating as a stander.
"I think it is only fair that you pay (all of what I said)". Or do I simply say "We each need to pay (blah)"
What if she disagrees? What is the right thing to say?
