well heres some entertaining info...omw called me tonight. i guess om went through a few week period recently where he couldnt figure out what he was doing. pretty sure it matches up with the period when i was getting the 'you dont care about me, leave me along, why do you want to ruin my life' texts from xw.
I was certain at the time xw put pressure on om to sh*t or get off the pot with OMW. Well, OMW tells me OM was rather physically interested her on her birthday. It was soon after that he filed. He was going to lose his W for sure and XW was laying down the hammer. Cant lose both, so file, make XW happy, and move on.
So...OM ticked off OMW pretty good recently. OM and XW (i know, rather confusing with all these letters) were recently on a vacation together, so OMW txt XW and lets her know about a bunch of wonderful details about her and OM recently. Nothing like calling him out on a few lies. She figured she'd throw a little wrench in their vacation. Must have...as she got a reply lickity split, but from OM. Were pretty sure this is where the creation the the 'ring' came from. OM had to show XW how committed he was to her. "i filed, she's gone, heres a ring, all is good'...
I cant stop thinking how what a wonderful relationship these two have. XW cant trust OM and OM has been pressured into this.
oh well..im doing fine tonight...knowing what a big mess xw has got herself into.
