just decided to come check things out over here on your thread. i am happy for ya doc.
it could very well be that the holidays will be a time when you and the W will experience special gains. I expect it and you should to. keep mixxing things up for her. maybe keep her guessing a little. I am not sure if you are tactically witholding anything at all from her but if so then take an occasional personal risk in your interactions with her of some sort. It usually yields further positives.