Can I save my marriage?

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Thanks Gnosis! I wasn't sure I did the right thing. I was really stuck in the moment, so the only thing to get myself out was to ignore it.

Puppy, Thelma and Louise is so 1990.

I'm doing good tonight. H came home from Hockey. We played with the boys, and then put him to bed. The American Music Awards were on so we watched them together. He came in for more cuddles, which I gave. May not have been the right decision, but it felt good. He made a few more comments.
"T.v's are on sale at walmart, we should get one for the bedroom"
"I need to get garbage bags up in the window in the spare room for when I sleep on night shifts."
I told him the deck latice was wrecked, "Ya, just leave it I'll fix it in the spring"
I said I need to get the xmas lights up, "don't you dare get on the roof, I'll do it this week"

It was all night, these comments like he was home with us. And he was my husband. I didn't 'react' to any of them, just let them run off my shoulder, but obviously they stuck in my mind. We both work in the morning, so he had to go, gave me another hug, wished me goodnight and left. We'll see what the week brings. Taking it one day at a time. I work all week this week, picked up some shifts, so looking forward to getting out of the house.