Wow, PIGA! Haven't been on a lot, but read up on your progress, and its awesome!!!! Yay for you! Take it one minute at a time. Take the advice of all the pros on here.

As for the ring, in my opinion definitely let him make the decision to wear it again on his own. He left and took his ring off, you dealt with it. Now deal with him not wearing it till he's ready. Be happy with the sitch and take it as it is. As for your ring, I would wait till he starts wearing his again. I think it might look too needy if you put yours on.

Praying for you!

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14