With my job loss, this can really ruin both of us financially. I don't care about me and definitely not her, but it kills me thinking about how my boys will not have all the advantages I had hoped to give them.
My W and I both have jobs -- in fact W has a very good job -- but D will ruin us as well. Same reason. W can't stop spending. And W has been spending a lot of time talking to the girls about how they'll have to make changes. Vacations, summer camps, special lessons, tutors, saving for college. Those are things that are going to have to be cut or scaled back significantly. The fog is thick.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
