I know it's tough...all these ups and downs...the rollcoaster...I hate it. Like CTH said, just get some sleep and get thru the week and then see how you feel. And as hard as it is, just act "as if" all week b/c if you do decide to go forward, you wouldn't want to backtrack on the progress you've made. But after this week and after you get a chance to really think about it and if you still are truely done & only if you are truely done, then I'd say give him your ultimatrum and be prepared to follow thru on it (b/c that could be the real end of it). But also think that you are still making progress and that he is going to pull back when he starts to get close to you again (like he was last week). Or maybe since you are feeling this way (I'd say play it by ear though) and as it seems like he wants to make this work, maybe start to up the boundaries again (with OW) and see what the results are. Just think about your options out there...there are still a few more things to try, including patience, so don't give up yet...but ultimately the decision is up to you...there really is only so much each of us can withstand. Good luck on your decision.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
