Gardner- that is very true. I would be over the moon if he came home with it on again. I am a little worried about putting mine back on. I don't want to give him the wrong impression. I don't know how to explain it. I am trying to give off the appearance of wanting it to work but not really needing it either way.

4luv- I agree that if he hadn't left things wouldn't have changed. The time away is what made him want to try and make this work. I would still be very hesitant to be the one to leave. From a power standpoint and a legal standpoint, that is just not a good idea.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month