can pursuing a WAS be a 180?

[avermont]

Well, I texted him, but no reply. Had a fine time at the bar with the girlfriend. The bartenders are all in favor of me claiming my space at the bar. Apparently he brought the OW there once, and the bartenders's response was "ugh!" It is good to know folk are on my side.

Courage, time, and detaching will lead me to be able to claim my place in town without "checking in" as to where he is. Time, time time.

Thanks for your support. I am going to find out if he is out of town for Tgiving (don't care where he is) but that will give me a better sense of freedom to be out and about in town.

Good to be out and get a drink with a friend.