Guys I think this is the first time that BTM is actually taking a stand, it may sound like tit for tat but he hasn't done any "TAT" up until this point and maybe that's why it seems like that from our perspective.

We've been giving him advice for so long, he's starting to show signs of actually understanding why now, remember this is a learning process for everyone.

And as for the tit for tat discussion, some may be against it but just remember, there is no TAT without TIT - it may help to do this every now & then to show the WAS that there are consequences for certain actions, if they don't ever encounter a barrier when they do something disrespectfully what would cause them to stop?