S'ok! Welcome to the human race. This, like life, isn't about perfection, it's about trying and NEVER quitting.
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BUT I REALIZE NOW AS I SHOULD'VE BATTLE LINES HAVE BEEN DRAWN AND ANYONE THAT WAS A MUTUAL FRIEND, REALLY ISN'T MY FRIEND RIGHT NOW.
You still have friends man, you have your fambly, you have your previous friends, and you have this place.
Yeah, mutual friends are a minefield, sucks like taxes, but it is what it is. Leave it be though, you've no idea what they've heard, or who they sympathize with. That'll sort itself out later, and there's nothing you can do to help make up anyone's mind.
IMHO talking to her friends, or god forbid, her fambly, is a disaster. Besides distancing you from possible later friends, you are sure to drive her further away by making her feel pressure when she hears about the convo, which she will.
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i don't know if a mlc'er actually remembers a convo or not,
Doesn't matter, if they did, they'd re-write history to make it fit their goals and make you a bad person.
Really, it doesn't matter. unless you HAVE to be RIGHT. Do you want to be right or save your marriage?
Focus on you. Take care of your kids. Leave her alone and let her sort her Stuff out. Any attempt at helping her or convo-ing about it is pressure and drives her further away.
I'll pray for her man.
Best, Punkt
These are my friends now!
But someday baby... You ain't worry my life anymore
Take away, take away what I don't need, save the good part please. Fade away, fade away.
