Did I do detachment wrong? I took a step back over the last few days and did a lot of thinking. I am not sure what to make of what I came up with. Have I become a WAS?
No......and the list you gave is the result of detaching "right"....if I did not misread your posts. When she reacts to you moving forward without her, that is good. She may try to bluff you out, but stick to your guns.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
