I agree with the separation. I have learned so much about myself and the things I want in life, and the things I used to take for granted, and the person I want to be when H left. We had an in house separation for a week,(I know, not very long), but since he left, honestly has been the best thing for me. I found out who I really am, and it did take him actually leaving to get there.
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
