Can I save my marriage?

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My H is off his rocker. I've come to that realization. He came over today an hour early to drop kids off, they both fell asleep in the truck so he came in. We sat for about half an hour having really good conversation after two days ago ending on really bad terms. The guy seriously gets over his madness in no time. Its crazy really. So we have a great talk, he comments on the paint job in the living room saying he really misses home. I didn't know what to say so i chose to ignore it. On one wall we have an old hockey jersey framed and up on the wall. He tells me that he has another one in storage and 'we' should put it up on the wall too. What? Excuse me? you don't live here! So me, not very good at DB'ing at all yet, again didn't know what to say, so I didn't say much.

We go upstairs as its time for him to go to the hockey game and he pulls me in for the most intimate hug ever. .I walked away to get out of the situation and he pulls me in again. And hugs me again. I pull away, he gets his jacket on, puts his shoes on and takes S3 to the game.

Messed up. I'm not too bothered. I'm actually feeling a bit detached right now! I pulled away! Which is a huge step for me, I usually soak it all in. But I didn't. And now I don't really know what to think. I'm actually not thinking much at all about it. Gonna give S1 a bath, have one myself and get into jammies, as I work tomorrow. Hmmm..feels good.

Also mentioned to H that I went out last night. He asks me if I got "hit" on, which I did, so I told him. Then he gets sad, asking who he was, what he did for a living, what did I all say to him....it was pretty funny.