oh and he was very nice, joking around, making small talk...things he hasn't done in a looooong time.It reminded me of
"kissing up" or "brown nosing"
If he is testing the waters, how should I be acting?
Should we go cut down the tree together?

I have butterflies...

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004