Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

So he just left...no D talk. He brought up Thanksgiving and noticed the food I bought. He asked if it was for my mom's house.
I said yes, but actually I am planning on surprising him on Wed with a Thanksgiving mini feast of our favorite foods! I bought mulling spices and cinnamon sticks to add to apple cider warming on the stove. So he will walk in, smelling the yummy goodness and I will say "don't make your breakfast sandwich. We are having our own Thanksgiving; just the three of us." I really really think he will be touched!

I asked him if he would help me get out all of the Christmas decorations this week and he said sure. Then he asked if I wanted to go pick out a tree together to chop down (we've done this every year). I was surprised that he offered and couldn't help but pause before saying, sure. He said he understood if I didn't want to because it was too weird. I said "let's just see how it goes"

I hope that was the right thing to say...does it conflict with my no pressure/be agreeable plan?