BTW - My H is here at home but also does pretty much absolutely nothing to lift a finger. I do everything. He does provide financially more than I but I am the bill payer and the book balancer. It is annoying but I so far have just put up with it. I am not sure if I should be setting any boundaries (he makes a pretty bad roommmate) in this area. Thinking about it, but don't want to pressure him or push him out the door.
