A divorce weekend for me. Am trying to finish up the nolo book on divorce Lodo recommended for me like a year ago-well better late than never right? Really really good book re: legal stuff.
I printed out my job logs for the L at her request. My idea, I'm printing out a bunch of emails I've saved from him and me. 2 general things I think of when I print them: well you know almost all my emails were approved here before I sent, and others are all polite business-like etc. As I'm printing out email after email from him most just wouldn't you say they are rude condescending, accusing me of being bad parent, etc. Seeing them all one time in a bunch makes this very clear to me. I don't think sharing custody will ever work between us; he will continue to be abusive in email if nothing else. I'm also looking to print emails which show my pattern of (good) communication to him as from some of his emails (you never told me?) I think that's going to be one of his main lies.
Reading his emails, he twists the truth. I had sent him a Sat. email saying that D10 was sick and woke up that morning with a fever. He emails me back saying I should not have allowed her to go to art club Fri. with a fever (which she didn't have until the next day). I told him a comment S16's teacher made to me "you have to fail before you get ESE" and he twists that in another email to say I expect them to fail in the classroom. He's a liar and an A$$. Makes me sick seeing it like this....
before I sent, and others are all polite business-like etc. As I'm printing out email after email from him most just wouldn't you say they are rude condescending, accusing me of being bad parent, etc. Seeing them all one time in a bunch makes this very clear to me. I don't think sharing custody will ever work between us; he will continue to be abusive in email if nothing else. I'm also looking to print emails which show my pattern of (good) communication to him as from some of his emails (you never told me?) I think that's going to be one of his main lies. 
