Agreed. The controlled separation (CS) was started prior to me finding DB. I have since focused on the principles of DBing. But for H, the CS is all that he knows and quite possibly the only reason he hasn't filed yet. Do you think I should tell him the agreement we had on CS is now null and void? He would probably ask why and I wouldn't know what to say. In addition, the entire topic is related to our R and I am trying to avoid a R talk at all costs. Not sure what to do. Should I just let it be for now?


Me & H: 33 yrs
S: 4 & 6
D: 2
M: 9 yrs
ILYBNILWY: 8/09
SEPARATED: 9/09
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