So sorry about all the projection. And, yes, it does absolutely seem like that is what it is. I know it is so hard, sometimes feels almost impossible, but I think detaching as much as you can is key to your sanity. He is going to do what he is going to do. Unfortunately, we can't sway these MLCers to do the right thing until they are/if they are ever ready. Just keep doing what you can for yourself and your girls.
