Not sure what to do

[Lost Rabbit]

Sorry I havent stopped by this week much Stu, started a new job and life has got a bit hectic, good to see others have popped in. The collage sounds fab and Im glad you decided to do it for you son regardless of what your W thinks! Thats the important bit from now on you have to do things for your son and you, if by chance your W benefits so be it, but if she doesnt or makes something negative out of it thats her problem. Dont believe all that she says, its funny I sent what seemed a normal msn conversation with my H to a friend who also does DB well you would think it was two conversations, when she pointed out all the times he either made it my fault, not his fault, or stuck to his script, it was subtle so much it was hard to see until I reread it. But thats just it so often it is subtle, so its best not to bother trying to interpret things at all, unless she says the ultimate words "I want to work on this marriage" then anything else except your sons welfare just goes over the top of your head until she starts coming out of her fog! You seem to be doing well mate, keep at it and keep smiling if you can.