Interesting thing today, ex picked son up and took him to his rugby, on returning he asked son to send me out to speak with him, he was basically on about sons chest still being bad and how he is struggling at rugby because of it, but underneath it all it was basically having a go at son and in a way I suppose me, was son eating ok was he doing this was he doing that. Anyhow I just got the feeling that he is getting fed up of taking son to his rugby. so after son and I came indoors, we had a few heated words and I told him I would take him myself, because I arent putting up with his dad dissing myself or son, who is he to tell me I arent providing the correct food or doing my job as a mother correctly. so because I was so wound up due to the fact son was upset at his dad dissing me, in a temper I texted ex and said "thanks, now he is upset and gone off on one", immediately he phoned up asking what was matter and quickly pointing out to me that he wasnt having a go and didnt want to upset myself or son, that he just wants son to be ok, and I have to say there was a tone in his voice that was upset too, maybe because of the text or the fact hed upset son. I dont know but I am not having him dissing me or son and if he doesnt like it he is welcome to get back out of our lives again, hes done it before so next time wont be such a shock, anyway rant over, thanks for listening, lol
