s7 spent the night with W last night. She showed up more than 2 hours late from our agreed time to pick him up, and then acted like she couldn't understand why I was acting somewhat upset. I don't know what kept her from being on time, but she wasn't here for the previous two hours when s7 was very anxious/upset that W wasn't here yet. I seriously question her priorities most of the time. In her mind, it seems that everything revolves around HER.
Had to let it drop as s7 acted like nothing was wrong once she got here. Of course s7 was just happy to see her. Went on with my life and reconnected with a friend over at his house. I hadn't seen him in quite a while and he was very happy that I'd contacted him. We hung out, talked a lot and played guitar until after midnight. Definitely good therapy, and we've made plans to make it a regular thing. Friend encouraged me to continue playing guitar as much as possible as a way to fill some of my "lonely" times. I think it's pretty good advice, as it's always been a personal goal of mine to get better at playing...just never "had the time" when W was living here.
Me 45 WAW 36 S8 T 15 M 12 Multiple PA's since 6/07 W moved out 10/25/09 I filed D 12/29/09 Sitch