The sense I get is that he intellecutally is realizing the possibility of this "delusion" and even the "addictive" nature of A r's. We also discussed that. But, of course he still has "feelings" for her and "that just doesn't go away".
I am going to give some space now after that talk, cont. GALing, 180's etc. and maybe pick up that book and see where that goes.
Then that might make it an IDEAL situation for him to learn more about the chemically-addictive nature of affairs.
