Coach:
I agree... all that I wrote is passive-aggressive. He's tried the soft, sensitive guy route and it's gotten him nowhere. P/A is a 180 for him and it's got her to pay attention. This is how it needs to be.

BTM:
One thing should be noted. See my signature for how you should be when you're interacting with your wife. Of important note is that in all your communication with her you REFRAIN FROM GUILTING her. Purposely trying to make her feel sorry, provoke regret or inflict pain on her is PURSUING.. and she will see it for what it is. Women are smarter and more intuitive than us simple men.

robx:
LOL, I have the same reactions when I come across your posts too. We've got a similar background and I think we've probably traveled a similar path to get to where we are. If you're on FB look me up by the same name as here... I'm the one whose lost his hair wink and is living life to the max.


M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT