Ok guys, I have been reading ahead and preparing for his 'homecoming'. How should we interact as a couple once he is here? How should I act as a wife? Should I act 'as if' things are great in the marriage and show him what life would be like if he stayed? Should I show him the strides I have taken to correct his reasons for leaving? OR should I continue the GAL and 180s by not contacting him unless it is urgent, not involving him in my plans, and basically cohabitating?

I know I will continue the GAL by going out and being as attractive as possible (both physically and emotionally). Am I to allow him to initiate any physical contact? (Seems to me yes) one of my goals is that he will say he loves me again. I know this is a long range goal and I a prepared to wait for it.

Anyway, if there is anything else. I need to know to prepare please let me know.

Last edited by praying_in_GA; 11/22/09 06:38 PM.

Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month