Ok guys, I have been reading ahead and preparing for his 'homecoming'. How should we interact as a couple once he is here? How should I act as a wife? Should I act 'as if' things are great in the marriage and show him what life would be like if he stayed? Should I show him the strides I have taken to correct his reasons for leaving? OR should I continue the GAL and 180s by not contacting him unless it is urgent, not involving him in my plans, and basically cohabitating?
I know I will continue the GAL by going out and being as attractive as possible (both physically and emotionally). Am I to allow him to initiate any physical contact? (Seems to me yes) one of my goals is that he will say he loves me again. I know this is a long range goal and I a prepared to wait for it.
Anyway, if there is anything else. I need to know to prepare please let me know.
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Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month