I was thinking something else for you, l.t. You might want to keep in mind that just because you and X are friends, you do not need to invite him home.

He is new to you again.

You wouldn't invite a new person to move in with you right away. You may want to think of things in those terms.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D