There's nothing for me to report but something is different.........
H and I have spoken, texted and emailed a few times as we have a few business things happening at present and a few things with the kids.
Last week H not only asked how I was feeling after the op by email and text and when he phoned the house looking for D but he also did 16 trips for D and I did none. After the last op he didn't offer any! This week he's organised him to do just over half. For 2 years I've done pretty much everything, and he's been the Tuesday night dinner Dad.
D says he keeps inviting her to stay over at his place and complaining she doesn't stay often enough.
His dealings with me have been most courteous, but that is all. You could say it's been cordial.
Tonight he came here to drop off some business things but I was on the phone with my B. I knew about them and they required no explanantion so I carried on the convo but he was still here after some time (talking with the kids) so I interrupted my convo and asked if he wanted to speak to me about something and he said no and then left shortly after.
So, there's something different happening........... perhaps just trying to re-establish with the kids and dealing positively with me as he knows we'll have to see each other for many years ahead???
Today I saw H and OW at our business and they arrived together. H came and said hi and D tells me OW rolled her eyes at me when she saw I was there. For the first time, I really felt like saying something to her. After all, what have I ever done to her? Grrrr