I think you already know where my mind is going....Dick, in his passive aggressive manner, is having someone stick it to you. The man can't let it go. As for dictating to your son about where he lives, well....I guess he can do that until your son graduates because of the monetary value he has placed on his parenting. I can't wait until you children have graduated and you can then tell Dick to kiss your @ss.

I do not like what you have been experiencing. You will need to take a very clear picture and then take it somewhere to have it blown up. You need to find out who is doing this. I guess my question is this, what or why does he even care what you aer doing? I know, I'm asking the question of the year.

Please take care of yourself.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.