But, I have to admit I am fighting a bit of resentment.
Do some self-reflection to see what you're resenting yourself for.
I had a kind of V8 Aha! moment a few weeks back and posted fairly extensively as I sorted through it. Any resentment I could think of that I had or was still harboring against STBXW, was actually a misdirected self-resentment: I didn't resent her for X; I resented my own inaction when she did it. I didn't really resent her for not Y-ing, I resented that I didn't express my needs. I don't resent her z; I resented my silently seething over it. Etc.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
