New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

Ready2change,

Sorry for the delay in answering your question. I live in CO, ski country indeed. Unfortunately I don't ski at all. Maybe I should try. I don't have many GALing activities to tell you the truth: daily workout, weekly evening Bible study, and that's about it. I know I should expand my horizons.

For Thanksgiving, I received 3 invitations, one with my immediate boss, another with an officer and his family, a third one from a single officer who wants to link up with other single officers. I kind of made up my mind to spend Thanksgiving with the other single officers. Being with my boss would be the same as a regular workday, being with that family would remind me too much of my 3 boys and W.

Anyway. I'm just thinking aloud. My S12 called today. I also talked with my S10 and S6. Made my day. I haven't talked with my W for a good 2 weeks now. Seems like she is avoiding me. Maybe this is the end...I don't know. Shouldn't read into this, I know. I guess she is thinking at the very least.

The D proceedings were dismissed last AUG. She hasn't refiled since. Maybe she will, maybe not. No idea. So I don't know what her silence means. More thinking? Disinterest? Last stage before the real D? Who knows...

Thanks for chiming in R2C. Hope this finds you well.

JR