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[iwantittowork]

An odd day, my d8 had school faire today that I went to with her, crafts, sales, etc.

STBXW works at the school, so was there most of the day as well, I had been worried about that, but today it didn't seem to bother me much at all, and I focused on having fun with d8.

Last interaction with STBXW was me hanging up on her, and I had expected some tenseness from her, but nothing there at all and she seemed very polite.

Oddly, I handed her the first check from the legal temp orders, and she knew nothing about it. I asked her, didn't your L call to tell you what the order came in as? She said no, she hasn't heard anything. I explained to her what was in it, and suggested she call her L to discuss it.

Later in the day she was done working, and d8 and I were in a room where there was hoola hooping, STBXW quietly had walked in behind me while we were there. I kept my distance from her, and focused on d8. STBXW walked out after about 10 mins there herself without saying much of a word to me or d8.

Just noting it. I feel she was trying to see if we could be 'friendly co-parents' or something,(I know, I know, I am mind reading here, so you don't have to 2x4 me..) but I don't even want to be around her right now.