Wow, there's not alot of suggestions I can give right now, but can only say congrats. Things are moving in the right direction! =) The fact that he is being there to support you physically and financially are just so awesome. And that he's preparing to move back in by January - YAY! One question, when he left last time, did you tell him he couldn't come back unless OW was out of the picture? I was just wondering what terms HE thinks he's coming back on. Obviously not a discussion for this point as you are in the rebuilding stage, just something to think about for the coming month.
Regarding the feelings and physical stage, I believe even DR said that that was the last stage you get to, so continue to be patient!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10