Can I save my marriage?

[motherof3]

So,has anybody felt detached one day, and then not the next?

I am like you. One day I do great and the next it is completely the opposite. Sometimes I will have a great day of feeling detached, but then later that night I can't help but wonder what H is up to. I hope that at some point these swings from on end of the spectrum to the other will gradually fade.