What's the purse like? This girl would enjoy to know.
"I think if I didnt feel some is missing, dating or thoughts of a different future wouldnt come to mind. I sound like a WA? Fine with me. At one point it doenst matter what it is called. I am thinking of myself for a change. Which feels good." K
No, it doesn't matter what it's called & everyone here is definitely wanting you to feel good in every way. Especially after the last few years of this stuff!
I guess what I'm trying to say, is that adding someone to the mix complicates things. It also probably is similar to attempting counseling with a spouse who's actively in an affair.
And, like I said, this probably sounds a heck of a lot like do as I say, not what I do. Maybe it is!
Something tells me, after the events of an hour ago, that I'm going to be providing an example of the danger of really getting involved with someone b/f you truly, truly know it's finished w/your H.
I am absolutely for you doing & thinking of yourself now. I also know you have a very strong appeal & it would be easy for someone to fall hard for you. So, try not to be so charming...