and he doesnt,I want to quit. I am thinking of quiting.
Originally Posted By: J3B
This feeling you have, these thoughts in your head, until/unless you are 100% positive you are done with your husband, you stand an amazing chance of hurting some poor person who doesn't deserve it, and if you do hurt someone you're the type of person who will hurt themselves in the process as well.
It is not worth it Kalni. It really isn't. It is a horrible feeling to live with.
Time, Kalni, time. Time will give you answers. It's not quitting Kalni. It's growing, maturing and reaching a realization that either your marriage is worth fighting for, or that the match is not right and is more destructive than emotionally satisfying.
Time Kalni. There is no rush. Although I am not the poster boy of saving a marriage, I CAN say that the old adage here on DB that "you will know when you are done"...is true. I can also state that making a rapid decision is NOT good (yes, a few months after learning the truth IS fast).
Time.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
