Would I ever expect my former spouse to be remorseful, apologize? Nope, nope, never.

Better yet.. why would I care? It's not about him, it's about me, where I am in my life, how my children are doing, how we work as a family.

Lots of marriages break apart because of the lack of meaningful communication. Divorce is the last thing to improve those skills.

Waiting or hoping for validation from the divorcing spouse is like walking backwards on a forward escalator. You don't get anywhere but nowhere fast.

Let go of those thoughts, of things that yank the tight and curlies and walk forward in the present, the now, who you are...

No need to look back.

*hugs*