Hi Everyone, Although I have never posted here before I have done a lot of reading. You have all been very helpfull through all this so far. Now here's the thing, there is lots to read about the early stages and post bomb trauma but, my H is turning back into himself, little by little, OW is out. I have read the old posts about the 6 stages and the one about reconnection. These have been around a very long time, have you guys found these descriptions to be true? It's been 1 1/2 years post bomb for me. He has been coming around for about 4 months, steady progress all the way, no alien appearences since May. To me it's been very close to what is in the reconnection thread. He is reconnected with the kids very well and as for me, well he calls me several times a day and we talk for hours all total daily. But the thing is he is still not even thinking about comming home, I havent even sugested it to him. I havent found anything anywhere to help me to navigate this new stage. Any one been here who can advise me or point me in the right direction? After all this hell I don't want to blow it now. Thanks l.t.
